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Resources for the Disciplined Creative

The published writer scolds the erratic painter, “you should be more disciplined about your painting. You hardly finish any work, and move on to the next one. And you don’t even publish your art, how can you even call yourself an artist?”

This is the conversation I have with myself. I was a published writer (articles, books and a song!), but my “painting” was no where to be found. Yet I would doodle more than I’d write.

This section is a collection of resources that helped me, and now help countless other creators, on how to:

– find more discipline for their creations

– build a brand online, so their art gets “published” and is taken to the market!

I have almost 300 videos on YouTube around these two subjects. And countless articles. That’s a lot of content. So I have tried to put the guides, the tools, the workshops, the articles together on this page. Hope this helps, yes? 

Most articles are in English, most videos are in Urdu.

These are hand-picked, proven, field-tested material that has been shown to work! I wish you all the best! Do join our community if you want regular updates when such content is added!

Productivity for Artists (Creatives, Creators)

How to structure your self to produce more of what you want to produce!

Do You Talk to Yourself

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The First LifeETC Local Meetup. In Lahore

These are all people who are doing something and now want to do something more! Add more adventures, more awesome into their lives. 🙂 The scale of what you are doing doesn't matter: one runs a site with 25,000+ paying members, one has the largest selling design in an...

Let us meet.

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Work-Life Balance: Why you should not do it

I met an old friend. Works in one of the largest banks in Pakistan. He has a high ranking post: he manages the operations for pretty much half of the country. He told me a little story. “I was at this opening ceremony on behalf of the bank,” he said, “and one of my...

Do This to Live a Boring, Mediocre Life

Beginner's Luck is the ultimate mistress, always there to seduce me into thinking I am good enough. You try something for the first time, and you surprise yourself. The first time I let go of the arrow, it hits the bullseye. The first time I send in an article to a...

Journey of a Thousand Miles begins with THIS

Journey of a thousand miles… Someone somewhere is baking a cake for the first time. The cake comes out OK: it’s eatable. But it tastes funny. On a scale of 1 to 10, ten being the best and one being the worst, the cake is hovering between minus 3 and minus 2. A few...

Building a Brand and a Business for Artists (Creatives, Creators)

Discover the fundamentals of brand building, how to go about creating your community of “1000 true fans” and building a meaningful, high-impact online business for yourself.

Should You do Lucrative Work or Fulfilling Work?

Have questions regarding converting your hobby into an online business, running a blog as a business or living a life of adventure? Head over to ASK MOMEKH! +++ I was recently asked this question, and I quote: "I hope you can shed some light as they are directly...

How to Generate $10,000 a Month from a Brand New Blog

Neil Patel is an SEO expert, an entrepreneur and a blogger extraordinaire. I have learnt a lot about blogging and search engine marketing from his blog over the years. And he recently announced a “challenge” to earn $100,000 per month from a new blog that he will...

5 Steps to make it EASY to talk about money

Thinking about money got me thinking about toasters. You see, I've got a question for you: is money the root of all evil? Aren't people - people making choices, albeit poor one - are the root of evil? Yes, they use money to “express” their evil… just like guns don’t...

Why Most People Die at Age 25?

Watch the video and leave your answer in the comments below (one lucky winner will win a virtual high five and a chance to give high fives to 5 other less lucky winners) Life means growth. No growth means there is no life. Here's the quote: Some people die at 25 and...

Here’s How the Good Guys Can Stop Finishing Last

There is a scene in the Avengers movie, where Bruce Banner - the guy who turns into the Hulk - is asked, “how did you finally control your anger and can now turn into the Hulk on cue?” Now all through the movie, he is asked this question, and just before he could...

Earning Money Online

I get an email from a subscriber, and as a passing reference, she mentions that she found my blog though a reference on Saad Hamid's blog. Saad Hamid mentioned me on his blog!? I had to check it out myself...I found this: Saad mentions me on his blog, and I get to...