What is Self Help

On this page, you can browse videos, articles and workshops on how to improve, how to be better, how to be more productive in work and in one’s life. Most articles are in English, most videos are in Urdu. 

These are hand-picked, proven, field-tested material that has been shown to work! I wish you all the best! Do join our community if you want regular updates when such content is added! 

New Year’s Video Message

I recorded a quick video message for the New Year. Do you make new year's resolutions? Then you will find the following video very helpful: Now... The dangling question is, "how can you achieve those goals?" Making new year's resolutions doesn't work because we think...

Steve Job’s Best Advice

Steve Jobs captures the essence of how to bring about massive change in your life. http://var/web/site/public_html.youtube.com/watch?v=UvEiSa6_EPA   In the above clip, Steve says: When you grow up you tend to get told the world is the way it is and you're life is...

The Habits of Highly Boring and Mediocre People

The path to a risk-free, boring, mediocre life in these easy steps: Always have something to complain about. Look for faults in others. In fact, consider “fault finding” a part of your job! Accept whatever you are told without asking for “verifiable” sources. Tell...

And you thought the struggle was over?

In 1947, sixty seven years ago today on the 14th of August, negotiations finally worked in favor of those who wanted independence. Today is the Independence Day of Pakistan. But independence comes at a price. Freedom always brings with it the responsibilities. To...

Do You Talk to Yourself

You should talk to yourself. Really. I know you already do that. But you must talk to yourself intentionally. The answers are all there. You just need to ask the right questions. +++ Time: Years ago. Location: Somewhere irrelevant. +++ "Fix me," I say. "But are you...

The First LifeETC Local Meetup. In Lahore

These are all people who are doing something and now want to do something more! Add more adventures, more awesome into their lives. 🙂 The scale of what you are doing doesn't matter: one runs a site with 25,000+ paying members, one has the largest selling design in an...

Let us meet.

Are you a lettuce or an apple? A lettuce will take three months to grow and you can use it in a salad. That is why it's commonly called salad leaf. Now once the lettuce has been used, you need to replant a new one. Salad leaves are healthy and quick to grow. An apple...

Work-Life Balance: Why you should not do it

I met an old friend. Works in one of the largest banks in Pakistan. He has a high ranking post: he manages the operations for pretty much half of the country. He told me a little story. “I was at this opening ceremony on behalf of the bank,” he said, “and one of my...