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Resources for the Disciplined Creative

The published writer scolds the erratic painter, “you should be more disciplined about your painting. You hardly finish any work, and move on to the next one. And you don’t even publish your art, how can you even call yourself an artist?”

This is the conversation I have with myself. I was a published writer (articles, books and a song!), but my “painting” was no where to be found. Yet I would doodle more than I’d write.

This section is a collection of resources that helped me, and now help countless other creators, on how to:

– find more discipline for their creations

– build a brand online, so their art gets “published” and is taken to the market!

I have almost 300 videos on YouTube around these two subjects. And countless articles. That’s a lot of content. So I have tried to put the guides, the tools, the workshops, the articles together on this page. Hope this helps, yes? 

Most articles are in English, most videos are in Urdu.

These are hand-picked, proven, field-tested material that has been shown to work! I wish you all the best! Do join our community if you want regular updates when such content is added!

Productivity for Artists (Creatives, Creators)

How to structure your self to produce more of what you want to produce!

Identity (او تسی ہو کون)

What do you do? Some find it easy to answer this question. I don’t. I find it hard to put a circle around what I do. The reason for that is deceptively simple: I don’t want to tag myself as someone because identity is super important. Note, I don’t...

How to find meaningful work

Last year I had an interesting experience. I gave lectures and was invited to speak at different universities. I was talking to students on my main topic of interest: how to do work around things you love to do. I called it get paid to do what you would have paid to...

In Search of Checklistables*

What is your big goal? Is it scary? Do you think you can do it? My big goal is to help 10,000 people start online businesses based around what they love. That’s a big goal. I’d need to be a different person to pull that off. I’d need to be far more...

If there is a way, I must find it

That is a good mindset to have: if there is a way, you must find it. And coupled with the belief that “where there’s a will, there’s a way”, you set yourself for the perfect trap: you can’t escape being the best! If you are not getting...

What Matters Most

Who you are and where you’re from does not matter. What matters is what you decide from this moment on. Isn’t that horrifyingly simple? We are lead to believe that we are our biographies, that our past will determine our future. Things like, “but you...

Should You do Lucrative Work or Fulfilling Work?

Have questions regarding converting your hobby into an online business, running a blog as a business or living a life of adventure? Head over to ASK MOMEKH! +++ I was recently asked this question, and I quote: “I hope you can shed some light as they are directly...

Building a Brand and a Business for Artists (Creatives, Creators)

Discover the fundamentals of brand building, how to go about creating your community of “1000 true fans” and building a meaningful, high-impact online business for yourself.

Business Vs Profession

A business is usually easier to define: anything that creates a client is a business (I didn’t even know this definition of business, I thought a business was having a registered name on your NTN, a logo and a business card). But what is a profession? And what...

15 Minutes, 46 Books

یہ ۱۸۷۴ میں اینتھونی ٹرولوپ نے ایک حیران کُن رفتار سے لکھنا شروع کیا۔ ان صاحب نے اگلے ۳۸ سالوں میں ۴۷ ناول، ۱۸ غیر افسانوی کتابیں، ۱۲ افسانے، ۲ ڈرامے اور مزید قسما قسم کے کالم وغیرہ لکھے۔
یہ سارا کچھ ان صاحب نے دن میں صرف ۳ گھنٹے اپنی لکھائی کودیتے ہوا کیا
اور رب کا شکر کہ انہوں نے بذاتِ خود اپنی روزانہ لکھنے کی عادت سے ہمیں آشنا کیا۔

Wrong use of social media

How can I say that you are using social media wrong? سوشل میڈیا کا استعمال، خاص طور پہ ایک کاروباری شخص کے لیے، نا گزیر ہے۔۔ لیکن جیسے کہ آپ نیچے وڈیو میں دیکھیں گے، اس غلطی کو کم پیسوں میں ٹھیک کیا جا سکتا ہے انشاءاللہ   [button...

How to Make High Quality Videos

How to make high quality videos? My video quality has certainly increased over the last few months الحمدللہ . Here is what you need to think to get great video: First identify why are you making videos. Always insist on knowing the purpose of doing something, so you...

RELEASE SCHEDULE – your creativity needs this!! (Urdu/Hindi)

Whatever you are creating, you need to have this in your life. You need a release schedule for your creativity. It solves three problems faced by everyone who is trying to be better at their craft, their work. Check out the video below (then see the text below):...