What is Self Help

On this page, you can browse videos, articles and workshops on how to improve, how to be better, how to be more productive in work and in one’s life. Most articles are in English, most videos are in Urdu. 

These are hand-picked, proven, field-tested material that has been shown to work! I wish you all the best! Do join our community if you want regular updates when such content is added! 

Identity (او تسی ہو کون)

What do you do? Some find it easy to answer this question. I don't. I find it hard to put a circle around what I do. The reason for that is deceptively simple: I don't want to tag myself as someone because identity is super important. Note, I don't mean the identity...

How to find meaningful work

Last year I had an interesting experience. I gave lectures and was invited to speak at different universities. I was talking to students on my main topic of interest: how to do work around things you love to do. I called it get paid to do what you would have paid to...

In Search of Checklistables*

What is your big goal? Is it scary? Do you think you can do it? My big goal is to help 10,000 people start online businesses based around what they love. That's a big goal. I'd need to be a different person to pull that off. I'd need to be far more disciplined, I'd...

If there is a way, I must find it

That is a good mindset to have: if there is a way, you must find it. And coupled with the belief that "where there's a will, there's a way", you set yourself for the perfect trap: you can't escape being the best! If you are not getting what you want, there is an issue...

What Matters Most

Who you are and where you're from does not matter. What matters is what you decide from this moment on. Isn't that horrifyingly simple? We are lead to believe that we are our biographies, that our past will determine our future. Things like, "but you can't do this...

Should You do Lucrative Work or Fulfilling Work?

Have questions regarding converting your hobby into an online business, running a blog as a business or living a life of adventure? Head over to ASK MOMEKH! +++ I was recently asked this question, and I quote: "I hope you can shed some light as they are directly...

5 Steps to make it EASY to talk about money

Thinking about money got me thinking about toasters. You see, I've got a question for you: is money the root of all evil? Aren't people - people making choices, albeit poor one - are the root of evil? Yes, they use money to “express” their evil… just like guns don’t...

Why Most People Die at Age 25?

Watch the video and leave your answer in the comments below (one lucky winner will win a virtual high five and a chance to give high fives to 5 other less lucky winners) Life means growth. No growth means there is no life. Here's the quote: Some people die at 25 and...

Here’s How the Good Guys Can Stop Finishing Last

There is a scene in the Avengers movie, where Bruce Banner - the guy who turns into the Hulk - is asked, “how did you finally control your anger and can now turn into the Hulk on cue?” Now all through the movie, he is asked this question, and just before he could...